My most sincere condolences / Donna Wade (met through Sissy )Read >>
My most sincere condolences / Donna Wade (met through Sissy )
To Mr and Mrs. Hosang and family,
My most sincere wishes to you all for peace and comfort. I learned of this tragedy long after it had occurred. I was nonetheless moved as a friend and as a mother.
My words are inadequate so I wll just say- May God be with you all especially when the people have gone home and you are quiet with your thoughts and memories.
Appeared on CompetitivEaters.com website / Arnie Chapman (friend)
On Sunday, May 11th Brian HoSang, the 24 year old son of Vincent and Jeanette HoSang passed away in a motorcycle accident in Pleasantville NY. The HoSang famiy who are the owners of Caribbean Food Delight, the Royal Caribbean Bakery and Jerk Q'zine were not only well known and respected n the Caribbean-American community for their authentic food but are also well known for their philantropic work in Jamaica and the United States. Brian, who worked along side his sister at several of the National Eating Championships that were sponsored by Caribbean Food Delights, recently began a leadership role in the family busines and was well liked by anybody who had the pleasure of meeting him. Brian who assisted in several AICE sanctioned eating championships will always be remembered for his pleasant personality, fun spirit and dedication to family and friends...... and of course, that great smile. Close
Deepest Sympathy / Rose Sue Low Chee &. Family (family friend )Read >>
Deepest Sympathy / Rose Sue Low Chee &. Family (family friend )
Dear Vincent, Jeannie & Family: Deepest sympathy to the you. Our throughts and prayers are with you. Brian is hanging out with the angels. Close
My eulogy for Brian's funeral / Sabrina HoSang (oldest sister )
Good morning ladies and gentlemen, distinguished guests, family, friends and employees. It’s unfortunate that we’re meeting under these circumstances but at the same time it’s good to see all of you, especially those who I haven’t seen in a long time. They say the number one fear people have is public speaking. Death is number two. Brian was not afraid of either one because he had no fears. He didn’t let anything get in the way of living his life the way he wanted. If you were blessed to have met or known Brian, you would agree with most or all of what I have to say about him and his life. If you find that I’m repeating anything that was said about him before, it just confirms the type of person he really was. You could also see what kind of person Brian was just by looking at how many wonderful friends he had.
At the scene of the accident while kneeling before Brian’s lifeless body, I asked God, “Why did you take Brian?” At the time, I got no answer. But three days after the accident, I received my answer from God. The answer I got brought peace within myself, peace with God and a peace of mind so I could now focus on helping my family and others cope with his death.
As you may know, Brian worked in the JerkQ’zine retail store in Mt. Vernon. One of the things I admired most about him was that he had a lot of patience, especially with difficult people. That’s one of the qualities that made him successful in retail because he was such a people person. He knew how to deal with all types of people. He also loved and enjoyed meeting new people. No matter who you were, what you looked like or where you came from, Brian welcomed you with a big smile and open arms.
He genuinely loved and cared for everyone so much. He had a big heart overflowing with love. There is not one person who knew him that wasn’t touched by his kindness. He earned everyone’s trust and respect immediately. He was upfront with people and didn’t talk behind their backs. Brian wasn’t a hypocrite. When he said he would do something, he did it. If he had a goal that he wanted to accomplish, he accomplished it. Brian was witty and always had something funny to say that made you laugh. He had a smile so warm and a playful personality that lit up any room. Brian had a way of putting you at ease. He made you feel comfortable enough to open up to him.
Seven years ago when I graduated from college, I moved back into my parents’ house. My bedroom was across from Brian’s. Every morning or whenever he was planning on going out with his friends, he would ask me if his outfit was coordinated well or if his shoes matched. He wanted to look good for the girls. I knew he valued my opinion and that made me feel really good.
Brian was there to listen anytime you needed someone to listen by dropping whatever he was doing at the time. He made time for you. Whenever I needed advice on something, I would go to Brian. After talking with him, I would feel so much better. Brian always had a positive outlook on life and gave good advice. He had unique perspectives on everything that you never thought of before. When you didn’t believe in yourself, he believed in you. He gave hope to many people who had little or no hope. Brian always put others before himself by making sure everyone else was okay. He was not selfish. He went out of his way for others. He made other people’s problems his problems and tried to resolve them the best way he could without hesitation. Brian was there for everyone.
Over the years, Brian had matured into a wonderful young man. He started spending more time on the important things in life such as creating positive relationships with people, mending broken relationships, strengthening his relationship with God by praying every night and living life the way he wanted. He tried to unite everyone and encouraged them to get along with each other.
Brian always strived to be the best at everything he did. Mediocrity was not his style. He would never settle for less. Brian’s determination and persistence to be the best at everything was so inspiring. When he didn’t succeed at something, he got back up and tried again and again until he succeeded. He reached so high that he made the impossible possible. Brian was a leader. Leaders don’t care about titles. They don’t think about what they need to do, they just do it. Brian was an inspirational, charismatic leader who will never be forgotten.
Brian and I shared the same views on life. From his death, I’ve been reminded of those views which are: not to put off seeing friends and family you haven’t seen in awhile or calling them just to see how they’re doing. It doesn’t take that much time out of your busy schedule. We need to let go of the past and not let it come in the way of mending a broken relationship. Don’t hold grudges because it will only make your life miserable.
From past experiences of almost drowning twice, I’ve always known how precious life is and how it can be taken away at any moment. We should live each day like it was our last day on earth because we never know when we’re going to leave this earth. You also don’t know when or if you’re going to see a person again. Life is too short. Don’t waste your time on being negative or angry. Spend your time and energy doing something positive and worthwhile. Make a difference in this world. Believe in yourself and you can achieve anything you want. In order to receive love from others and to love others unconditionally, you must love yourself first.
I know we are truly loved just by looking at all of you here and by the tremendous support we had received since Brian’s death, whether it was a phone call, e-mail, card, letter, face-to-face, a hug, smile, listening ear, receiving flowers or food and visiting us at the house. We are truly blessed to have friends and family like you and we appreciate all you have done to help us cope with this tragedy. Even at work, our employees have been going the extra mile filling in for my family and getting the work done. It’s so amazing to see how well they are taking care of everything to make sure the business is running smoothly while we’re away. I felt so overwhelmed with the love that we were receiving from everyone that it confirmed to me that I had so many awesome friends, family, employees and special people in my life. I could not have asked for more. Thank you so much for your support.
I was so blessed to have Brian as my little brother. Brian was the best brother you could ever have. He’s the type of person who is very rare in this world. It’s not all the time you meet someone like Brian. How many people can say that by age 24, they did what they loved and loved every second of their life? And how many 24 year olds do you know wanted custody of their 16 year old cousin? Only a person like Brian. Brian touched so many lives by age 24 and lived a happy life. He lived life to the fullest and enjoyed every second of it. He was so full of life and always happy. That’s the way he would want to be remembered. To me and my family, he was a gift from God. I am so grateful that God had blessed me with a brother that was so kind, loving, generous and happy. The experiences I had with Brian were priceless. I couldn’t have asked for a better brother than him.
This tragedy has strengthened my relationship with God. I know Brian is still with us on this earth. I can feel his presence every once in a while. I know God has plans for him and has plans for me, my family and all of you. I love you and pray that one day, we will all be in heaven together and reunite with our loved ones. God bless.
God knows best / Nadine Bennett
God's purpose you may not see, but he never does anything without a reason. Your son may be gone but he will liveforever in the wind , the sun that shine each day. May God give you the grace to go through each day in these difficult days. Close
God loves Brian and has taken him home. He was on loan to us fulfilling his call to be human. Cy and griev but do not grieve as people without hope. Christians are people of hope. The mystery of death will be revealed at the Kairotic moment when we see God face to face in all of His glory and Brian as well.
To the Hosang family take comfort in the words of Jesus who said,
"I am resurrection and I am life. He who believes in me though he were daed yet shall he live." Allow God to console you as your pain lessens during the coming years. Think of pleasant memories and cherish his life in your heart and thank God for lending him to you.
Our deepest condolences / Richard &. Karenne Koo Read >>
Our deepest condolences / Richard &. Karenne Koo
To the HoSang Family:
Please accept our deepest condolences for your loss. Our son, Derrick, knew Brian since they were in middle school together. Brian was a warm and caring person. We remember his smile and that sparkle in his eyes.
To Vinny and Jeannie, I do not know what to say. I can't contemplate the loss of a child. All I can say is that I am praying for you, the family, and Brian.
To Sabrina, Damian, and Simone. I too lost my brother 8 years ago. I can relate to the depth of the pain.
I wish I had some magic words for you, to ease the pain, to make everything a little better. However, I do not. I can only say that I am so sorry for your loss, I am praying for all of you.
With deepest sympathy to the Hosang Family / Kathy &. Devon Bennett (Jamey's Mom & Sister )Read >>
With deepest sympathy to the Hosang Family / Kathy &. Devon Bennett (Jamey's Mom & Sister )
Brian was the most polite and gracious young person who ever entered our home. This is a testament to the loving household he came from. He lit up the room when he entered it and now that light is gone way too soon. I hope knowing that Brian brought joy into the lives of anyone who knew him, helps bring some peace into your broken hearts
Condolence/ Janet &. Cornel Green
To the Hosang Family. Deepest condolences on your loss. You have always extend the hands of kindness to many. We pray; God comfort & strenghten you all in this time of mourning. His healing as you all recover in time to come and His continuous Blessing on your family. Close
my condolences / Winsome Spaulding (mother of coworker leon s )Read >>
my condolences / Winsome Spaulding (mother of coworker leon s )
my heart goes out to the hosang family,i have had the pleasure of meeting brian through my son leon who worked at the family business. he was a plesant soul, may the love of god be with you always if you ever feel down just read psalm5v4 Blessed are they that mourn for they shall be comforted RIP in peace brian.
love winsome Close
Contributing Editor Everybodys magazine / Stan Smith
My heart felt condolences to the Hosang family on your loss. Your family have been such an important part of the progress of the West Indian-American community. May the good lord strengthen the family and continue to grant his grace.
Stan Evan Smith is contributing Editor to Everybody’s Magazine, (NYC) Music critic for the Gleaner/Star NA. Staff writer, Jahwork.org, (California) Westindiantimes.net (Virginia) and senior music writer Jamaicans. Com (Florida) and, contributing writer to POSH Magazine (Maryland). He can be reached stansmith24@hotmail.com. ww.myspace.com/stanwsmith
To the family / Renee Hastick-Motes
Be strong in the Lord and in the power of His might, my prayers are with you in your time of mourning. God Bless Close
I wish you all God's comfort in this time of sorrow. I know you mean humanity well and you have always reached out the hands of kindness to many. I wish that you will over time recover from your loss and continue to be a strong and caring family. God Bless You.
For the past six years I have been truly blessed to have Brian as my friend. He was the type of person everyone strives to be like. Genuine, caring, forever happy, humble, funny, talented, an overall good time. Not a bad bone in his body.
When I was introduced to Brian by my sister he immediately struck me as a wonderful person and over the years I have learned just how wonderful one person can be. He was our bad mood eraser, the person you can go to no matter what and know he will always be there to make it all better. I thank my sister from the bottom of my heart for letting such an incredible person come into my Life. I also have to thank Brian for bringing my sister and I closer and giving us many opportunities to have a great time together.
Brian was wise way beyond his years and though I was not close with Brian for as long as many others, he taught me many things about life that I will cherish forever, most of which were by example. The best lessons were to live life to the fullest each day and to not sweat the small stuff. Brian was an expert at both.
I can say so much more, but those of you who have been blessed to meet Brian, even just one time, know how truly special he was and will continue to be. He was an angel sent here from heaven and there he shall rest in peace.
My deepest sympathies to Brians family and sincere gratitude for bringing such an unforgettable person into this world. Brian will be forever missed.
My sincere condolences to the HoSang family. / Wilton Williams (Friend)
On behalf of the Soul Tone Disco & Family, we would like to extend our sincere condolences to the HoSang family on the lost of their beloved son Brian.
May God grant you his absolute riches blessings, in this time of sorrow.
Condolence/ Kendra Wallace (former co-worker )
I just want to say rest in peace to Brian he was truly a good man, I'm going to miss him dearly. his smile could brighten anyone's bad day love you Brian you will stay in my memories. Close
Our Condolenses to the HoSang Family / Niocle Wu (Sabrina's Friend )Read >>
Our Condolenses to the HoSang Family / Niocle Wu (Sabrina's Friend )
Dear HoSang family,
Justin and I are deeply saddened to hear about Brian's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult period. Please let us know if you need anything.
My deepest condolences. May these few words from the Holy Scriptures give you comfort...
John 11:32-45
32 And so Mary, when she arrived where Jesus was and caught sight of him, fell at his feet, saying to him: “Lord, if you had been here, my brother would not have died.” 33 Jesus, therefore, when he saw her weeping and the Jews that came with her weeping, groaned in the spirit and became troubled; 34 and he said: “Where have YOU laid him?” They said to him: “Lord, come and see.” 35 Jesus gave way to tears. 36 Therefore the Jews began to say: “See, what affection he used to have for him!” 37 But some of them said: “Was not this [man] that opened the eyes of the blind man able to prevent this one from dying?”
38 Hence Jesus, after groaning again within himself, came to the memorial tomb. It was, in fact, a cave, and a stone was lying against it. 39 Jesus said: “TAKE the stone away.” Martha, the sister of the deceased, said to him: “Lord, by now he must smell, for it is four days.” 40 Jesus said to her: “Did I not tell you that if you would believe you would see the glory of God?” 41 Therefore they took the stone away. Now Jesus raised his eyes heavenward and said: “Father, I thank you that you have heard me. 42 True, I knew that you always hear me; but on account of the crowd standing around I spoke, in order that they might believe that you sent me forth.” 43 And when he had said these things, he cried out with a loud voice: “Laz´a·rus, come on out!” 44 The [man] that had been dead came out with his feet and hands bound with wrappings, and his countenance was bound about with a cloth. Jesus said to them: “Loose him and let him go.”
45 Therefore many of the Jews that had come to Mary and that beheld what he did put faith in him;
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